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I was never a popular child at school. I was bullied teased and harassed by a group of girls who felt every insecure and threatened by me as I was different in many ways to them.

They had new clothes one books new bags and were not very bright.

Me on the other hand my parents dressed me up in all my older sisters hand me downs I went to school with my sisters old hand me down books and I wasnโ€™t overly smart, but I was smarter than the girls that teased me relentlessly day in and day out at school. My family was religious, and my home life was not the best.

Because of the bullying throughout the years, I became a people pleaser, and that was because I wanted to be liked, I wanted to be popular and so I let people push me around. I did things that people wanted me to do so that I could be in the in crowd and fit in. Still nothing I ever did seem dot please people particularly those girls.

As within a year of being bullied I became very withdrawn and shy and fearful of others to the point where I would not express myself, what I felt and what I wanted at school and at home when I needed support and attention I was being told to toughen up and to go away and deal with it on my own. So, at school I was quiet and withdrawn and at home I rebelled to get attention but I was still a good kid.

As I got older, I realized five very things that really helped me deal with the bullying and move forward with my life. These five things were:

1) ๐‘–๐‘“ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘›’๐‘ก ๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘ข๐‘ ๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘“ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘› ๐‘๐‘’๐‘œ๐‘๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘™๐‘ฆ ๐‘๐‘ข๐‘ โ„Ž ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘š๐‘’.

2) ๐‘‡๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘๐‘ข๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ, ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘˜๐‘’๐‘‘, ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘’๐‘ ๐‘›’๐‘ก ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘™๐‘ฆ ๐‘š๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘Ÿ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘’๐‘  ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘Ž ๐‘๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘œ๐‘› ๐‘๐‘’๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘ข๐‘ ๐‘’ ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘™๐‘ฆ ๐‘š๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘  ๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘›๐‘˜ ๐‘œ๐‘“ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘“ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ โ„Ž๐‘œ๐‘ค ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘“๐‘’๐‘’๐‘™ ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘“.

3) ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘“๐‘’ ๐‘–๐‘ ๐‘›’๐‘ก ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘ ๐‘ฆ ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘“๐‘’ ๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘  ๐‘›๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ ๐‘š๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ก ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘ ๐‘ฆ. ๐ฟ๐‘–๐‘“๐‘’ โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘  ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ๐‘  ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘“๐‘ข๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘œ๐‘“ ๐‘ข๐‘๐‘  ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘ค๐‘›๐‘ , ๐‘”๐‘œ๐‘œ๐‘‘ ๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘š๐‘’๐‘  ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘‘ ๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘š๐‘’๐‘ . ๐ด๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘–๐‘“ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘™๐‘ฆ โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘”๐‘œ๐‘œ๐‘‘ ๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘š๐‘’๐‘ , ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข’๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘›๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ ๐‘”๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘ค, ๐‘™๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘› ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘‘๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘ ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘š๐‘Ž๐‘ง๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘œ๐‘› ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐ผ ๐‘˜๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ค ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘› ๐‘๐‘’.

4) ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ก ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘’ ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘˜๐‘’ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘–๐‘› ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘“๐‘’ ๐‘›๐‘œ ๐‘š๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘Ÿ ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘œ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘‘๐‘œ ๐‘ ๐‘œ ๐‘–๐‘ก ๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ๐‘  ๐‘๐‘’๐‘ ๐‘ก ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘“, ๐‘™๐‘’๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘›๐‘’๐‘Ÿ ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘”โ„Ž๐‘ก ๐‘ โ„Ž๐‘–๐‘›๐‘’, ๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘ ๐‘๐‘’๐‘๐‘ก ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘œ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘๐‘ข๐‘ก โ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘‘๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘’๐‘  ๐‘–๐‘› ๐‘ ๐‘œ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘›โ€™๐‘ก ๐‘”๐‘’๐‘ก ๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘˜๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘œ๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘™๐‘ฆ ๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘ก๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘ก ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘˜๐‘’๐‘š๐‘–๐‘›๐‘‘๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘๐‘’๐‘œ๐‘๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘œ ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘ ๐‘๐‘’๐‘๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘‘๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘’๐‘ .

5) ๐‘‡โ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ๐‘  ๐‘”๐‘œ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘๐‘’๐‘œ๐‘๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘ค๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘ก ๐‘™๐‘–๐‘˜๐‘’ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘“๐‘’๐‘’๐‘™ ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘’/๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘›๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘๐‘ฆ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘‘๐‘œ ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘ฆ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ก๐‘œ โ„Ž๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘ก ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘ค๐‘› ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘–๐‘Ÿ ๐‘™๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘™. ๐‘Œ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘‘๐‘œ๐‘›โ€™๐‘ก โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘˜๐‘’ ๐‘œ๐‘› ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘‘ ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘ฆ ๐‘ ๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘‘๐‘œ. ๐ผ๐‘ก ๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘–๐‘Ÿ ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘๐‘ข๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘’๐‘  ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘ฆ ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘—๐‘’๐‘๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘œ๐‘› ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘™๐‘ฆ โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘  ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘‘๐‘œ ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘กโ„Ž ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘™๐‘ฆ. ๐‘†๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘›๐‘ข๐‘’ ๐‘–๐‘› ๐‘‘๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข, ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘œ๐‘๐‘๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘–๐‘› ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฆ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘‘๐‘œ.

I am really grateful to have learned these things and to be able to pass them on to you now.

 

๐‘ฏ๐’†๐’“๐’† ๐’Š๐’” ๐’‚ ๐’Ž๐’†๐’”๐’”๐’‚๐’ˆ๐’† ๐’•๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’‘๐’‚๐’“๐’†๐’๐’•๐’” ๐’๐’‡ ๐’•๐’‰๐’† ๐’„๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’…๐’“๐’†๐’ ๐’•๐’‰๐’‚๐’• ๐’ƒ๐’–๐’๐’๐’š ๐’๐’•๐’‰๐’†๐’“ ๐’„๐’‰๐’Š๐’๐’…๐’“๐’†๐’.

It is because of you and your example that your children are bullying other children. If you bully others in front of your children directly or indirectly some of what they see and hear will rub off on them and they will copy you as they are young and impressionable and they will think that that sort of behavior is normal and acceptable. Please take a good hard look at yourself and your behavior and change it so that your children donโ€™t become bullies. Control your temper with others and be rational human beings that have rational conversations and support one and other instead of getting angry and blowing up at others and becoming verbally and physically violent with others.

If you know your child is bullying another child, then tell them to stop as the effects of being bullied when you are the one being bullied are tremendous and can scar a person for life if that person doesnโ€™t deal with what has happened.ยฉ

 

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