{"id":894,"date":"2020-07-03T09:39:58","date_gmt":"2020-07-02T23:39:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lynette.prosser.online\/?p=894"},"modified":"2024-01-12T22:34:52","modified_gmt":"2024-01-12T11:34:52","slug":"the-3-universal-fears-our-identities","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/daretobeyou.net.au\/the-3-universal-fears-our-identities\/","title":{"rendered":"Unveiling My True Self: Overcoming Life’s Deepest Fears"},"content":{"rendered":"
The Struggle Against Universal Fears<\/strong><\/p>\n I’ve walked a path many know too well \u2013 feeling out of place, craving authentic connections yet constantly facing exclusion and superficiality. My journey, marked by the universal fears of not being loved, feeling inadequate, and lacking belonging, reflects struggles familiar to many.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s delve in deeper into the human psyche for a while now. The reason we all have thought and felt this way at some point is because of the 3 universal fears. These are the big overarching fears. These fears are:<\/p>\n As a small child, we develop these fears through the experiences we have had. These fears hold us back from doing a lot of things in our lives. These fears have smaller fears grouped with in them. Some of the smaller fear groupings are below:<\/p>\n The above are just a small portion of the sub fears we have. If I were to list all of them, it would take me at 6 months or more to do so. As you can see from the above that a lot of the sub fears can be used in one of all the overarching fear categories.<\/p>\n Some of these fears are in our heads either conscious or subconscious and some manifest as mental illnesses due to us thinking that our fears are who and what we are, and so we lose our identities through being so caught up in the limiting beliefs that we have made up based on these fears that in our lives.<\/p>\n My Silent Battles<\/strong><\/p>\n From childhood through my early adult years, I was enveloped in a cloud of emotional and psychological abuse. This shaped my deepest fears, dimming the light of my true identity. The bullying, betrayals, and emotional wounds I suffered eroded my self-esteem and left me feeling unlovable.<\/p>\n Have you ever thought where humanity would be right now if we were taught at a very young age that:<\/p>\n Children should be encouraged to think positively and to want to be their own person who has boundaries and respects themselves and to be loved for it. Not judged, scolded at and ridiculed for it. Let hem be creative but teach them to have honest and to have a true relationship with themselves. Let them grow from their mistakes and bounce back resiliently from them with a greater sense of self-worth and self-love. Empower your children to be the best versions of themselves that they can be!<\/p>\n The People Pleaser in Me<\/strong><\/p>\n In my longing for acceptance, I transformed into a people pleaser. I put others’ needs before my own, hoping this would bring me love and belonging. However, this path led me away from my true self, leaving me empty and unfulfilled.<\/p>\n My Turning Point: From Darkness to Light<\/strong><\/p>\n There came a moment when I realized I couldn’t live under the shadow of these fears any longer. I had to break free. My journey to rediscover myself involved facing the raw emotions I had long suppressed and challenging the limiting beliefs that had defined me.<\/p>\n Building My Holistic Support System<\/strong><\/p>\n I crafted a holistic support system through a process of self-discovery and experimentation. This became my sanctuary, a blend of self-care and lifestyle changes that empowered me to reclaim my life. It was a transformative process of healing, growth, and self-empowerment.<\/p>\n Today: Embracing My Authenticity<\/strong><\/p>\n Today, I stand strong, knowing who I am. I am no longer defined by my past but rather by the strength I found in overcoming it. My story is one of hope, showing that it’s possible to face your deepest fears, find your true self, and emerge stronger and more authentic.<\/p>\n Join Me on Your Journey of Transformation<\/strong><\/p>\n At ‘Dare To Be You’, we believe in the transformative power of embracing your true self. My story is an invitation to you to begin your own journey of self-discovery. We are here to support you as you face your fears, find your voice, and step into a life of authenticity.\u00a9<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Copyright \u00a9 2022 Lynette Diehm.<\/p>\n All rights reserved. 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\n Universal Fear<\/th>\n Not being loved<\/th>\n Not belonging<\/th>\n Not being enough<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n \n Sub fears<\/th>\n Not being lovable<\/td>\n Being alone<\/td>\n Not being perfect<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n <\/th>\n Not being able to love others<\/td>\n Being lonely<\/td>\n Not being in control<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n <\/th>\n Not being accepted<\/td>\n Not liked<\/td>\n Of being judged<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n <\/th>\n <\/td>\n Being out of place<\/td>\n Of public speaking<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n <\/th>\n <\/td>\n Being different<\/td>\n Of being ugly<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n <\/th>\n <\/td>\n Being odd<\/td>\n Of being weak<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n <\/th>\n <\/td>\n Being strange<\/td>\n Of being too emotional<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n <\/th>\n <\/td>\n Being weird<\/td>\n Of failure<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n <\/th>\n <\/td>\n Not fitting the stereo type<\/td>\n Of success<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n <\/th>\n <\/td>\n Of standing out<\/td>\n Not being educated<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n \n <\/th>\n <\/td>\n <\/td>\n Not having enough experience<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n \n