Finding My Voice: A Journey Beyond Judgment

Harmonizing with My True Self: Overcoming the Echoes of Judgment

In the embrace of Dare To Be You, I share a journey that resonates with many – the quest to find one’s voice amidst the shadows of judgment. Raised in a strictly religious family, I was the shy girl who yearned for acceptance. Surrounded by a community where I felt like an outcast, the weight of constant judgment from peers and adults alike was a heavy cloak I wore.

Despite this, one beacon of joy shone bright – my love for singing, dancing, and acting. In the world of music and performance, I discovered a land where judgment faded, and I could be anyone I wished to be.

Fueled by stories of my father’s singing days, I clung to my dream. With each note I practiced, I inched closer to breaking free from the chains of perfectionism. The day I finally gathered the courage to sing at my church, my heart raced, and my stomach churned with nerves. Yes, I missed a verse, and the audience’s reaction was a storm I had to endure. The laughter and criticism that followed were piercing, yet they didn’t deter me.

Years later, the harsh words of judgment echoed again when I overheard the crushing opinions of those deciding the lead role in a church musical. Their laughter and dismissive words about my singing shattered my spirit. From that moment, I silenced my voice, burying it under layers of shame and fear.

Now, in my 40s, the tides have turned. With Dare To Be You as my compass, I am confronting the fear of judgment that once caged my voice. I am ready to share my singing with the world again, untrained but unashamed. My heart may race with the memory of past judgments, but I stand firm, a strong and confident woman, ready to break free from the limiting beliefs of my past.

This is more than just a song; it’s a declaration of my newfound self-acceptance. I welcome your opinions, for they no longer define me. I am no longer that shy girl, but a woman who sees herself and the world through a lens of strength and confidence.

As you listen to my voice, remember its journey – from suppression to liberation. It’s a voice that has been silent for years, now ready to sing its own story.©

Copyright © 2022 Lynette Diehm.

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