Have you ever felt like you’re just going through the motions, constantly attracting the wrong type of men into your life? It’s draining and disheartening. You navigate the maze of life, believing that someone amazing is out there for you, only to have married or separated men approach you on social media and dating apps.
They present themselves as single, and after 2, 3, even 6 dates, you find out they’re not single at all. They’re married or separated but still living with their exes because of their children or cultural values. These men continue to play happy families in public but seek something on the side, all while deceiving you for weeks with messages and phone calls, pretending they’re available. By the time they drop the bombshell, you’ve already become emotionally attached. You feel hurt, angry, frustrated—not just with them but with yourself for believing their lies.
I have found that true happiness is an internal job. Unless you work on yourself, you will continue to attract the wrong types of men into your life. The Dare To Be Yourself online course is designed specifically to help women like you get to know, love, and respect yourself so you can attract the right men.
Research shows that 90% of the world’s population never truly finds happiness. Many become people pleasers, believing it will bring them joy, but instead, it leaves them miserable and unfulfilled.
I remember when I was 29 years old and attracted not one, but three men like that, one after the other. It wasn’t just from dating apps—this happened in the workplace too. It really got me down. I started doubting myself, wondering if I would ever meet Mr. Right. It felt like there was something wrong with me, like this was all I was destined to attract. I cried myself to sleep at night because I didn’t want to keep attracting these men, but I didn’t want to be alone either. When I went on dates after that, I was always waiting for the bombshell to drop, and most of the time, it did—usually around the fourth date. It was so disheartening.
I saw how easy it was for my friends and acquaintances to move from one relationship to another, eventually finding the right person. But that wasn’t happening for me. Even though I was happy for them, it hurt to watch. I thought being a good person would be enough to attract the right men, but it wasn’t. So, I stopped dating and focused on myself and what truly made me happy. I dealt with unresolved issues from my family and past romantic relationships and really started looking inward. I discovered that true happiness wasn’t about the love I got from others—it was about the newfound love and respect I had for myself.
From that experience, I created the Dare To Be Yourself online course. Now, I’m much happier and have started attracting the right people into my life. When I date now, I don’t get overly attached, and when I notice red flags, I move on. I’ve learned to love and respect myself enough to avoid the emotional attachment that once kept me stuck.
Today, I encourage you to visit fill out the Enquire Now form to learn more about the Dare To Be Yourself online course. Let’s start working on your internal relationship so that you can attract the right people into your life and, most importantly, find happiness within yourself.
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