Life is like a book. Life has a beginning and an end just like a book. If you think of life in this way, then you will see that what you choose to put in between the front cove and the back cover of you book is your choice. So, to is what you choose to do with your life from the moment of your when you were brought into the world to when you die.
Your life’s book is filled up of all your choices and the strategies you run to be who you want to be, do what you want to do, have what you want to have. Each chapter of a book from the beginning to the middle which is where you are now has multiple different choices and roads you could have taken, and you enacted the strategies from the decisions you made in the past. Some people remember the past and how it got them to the present day very clearly and others don’t.
The reason some people don’t remember the roads they have traveled on or the choices they have made in life and the events that followed is that as per a book the pages get old and may fall out of the book or something accidentally gets spilled on some of the pages and therefore the writing on the pages for the those specific chapters become unreadable smudged, blurred or are no longer in the book where they once were.
You can still choose to do things to change that like defining moments, timeline, past life regression. When we make a choice and run a strategy, we then put emotional value on them and from that emotional value come our priorities on what we remember clearly, what becomes a distant and blurred memory and what we don’t remember at all.
We are the inventors of our lives and if we choose to in the middle of life/our book we can change, choose a different path or direction to take and make a different decision, become someone new and different and amazing. Our past does not make us who we are and does not have to influence our decisions about what we want, who we are or where we are heading in life now.
You are who you are in the here and now so stop blaming the person you are now or your current decision and strategies you are running now on your past.
If you don’t like your past then you can choose to change the emotional attachment you have put on those memories of those particular events, turn that story you have told yourself about what happened in the past into something positive that will drive and fuel your passion to be and do better in the here and now and to move you toward the person you want to be in the future.
Don’t be afraid to start a new chapter of your life or to simply stop writing in the old book and reinvent yourself by writing a new book. One that you will feel proud of writing as you are a new person. Don’t let fear hold you back from creating the life you have always wanted and being the most amazing version of yourself that you can be.
Dare to be someone new, brave, confident and exciting and take responsibility for your life and the choices you have made and move forward with power, grace and passion.
Dare to be YOU and all of you now! ©
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