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As you can see from the below my life was never easy or simple even though I really wanted it to me. You may look at me and where I am now and think that I have had it easy, but I am here to tell you otherwise. Have a read of the below and see if you can relate to any of the below things in your life.
- γγ Being psychologically abused and emotionally abandoned as a child
- γγ Being bullied and teased by my older sister when growing up
- γγ Being kept down in grade 1
- γγ Being bullied by the other children at school as I was kept down in grade one so that people would not think my older sister was dumb. Instead, the other children in my grade never really accepted me and bullied me because they thought I was dumb, fat and ugly.
- γγ Being raised to believe at home in in the religion I was brought up in that, women should stay home get married and have children and that we should not get jobs and have careers
- γγ Being told by an extended family member at a young age that my parents never wanted me
- γγ Being made to wear my sisters hand me down clothes and having my hair cut like a boy as a child so people would not see I was better looking than my sister
- γγ Being made to believe from a young age that there was something wrong with me, that I wasnβt βNormalβ
- γγ My sister holding knives to my throat, pinching and scratching me as a child and getting ways with it
- γγ Being blamed for the bad things my sister did when we were little
- γγ Being betrayed by my childhood best friend several times as a child and as an adult
- γγ Being cheated on by 2 of my partners with my best friends I had at the time
- γγ Being rapes twice, abducted sexually assaulted
- γγ Being bullied, sexually harassed, and sexually discriminated in the work place several times
- γγ Being in verbally psychologically abusive relationships
- γγ Loosing the love of my life to cancer
- γγ Being led to believe at a young age that money and things werenβt for me and only for my sister when they offered to pay for her dance classes, sports and school outing
- γγ Battling cervical cancer and ovarian cysts
- γγ Depression and anxiety
- γγ Extended family members choosing the side of an ex who cheated on me and took my house from me and cutting them out of my life
- γγ Being used as an emotional punching bag by my parents when things werenβt going right for them
- γγ Being made to feel as though I was not enough for my parents as I was not their favourite child and having them choose here over me time and time again
- γγ Being scammed by local and overseas organizations for thousands of dollars that nearly put me on the streets and having to fight to get my money back
- γγ Being taken advantage of in an internet dating scam and a book writing scam
- γγ Taking 2 rapists to trial for what they did to me and winning trial with very little support
- γγ Being sexually objectified because I am a beautiful woman
- γγ Sexually discriminated for jobs
- γγ Being treated like a dumb bimbo who doesnβt know anything in the workplace
- γγ Cutting my parents out of my life as they continually hurt me as an adult
- γγ Having a fear of heights
- γγ Having a fear of not being in control
- γγ Having a fear of being judged
- γγ Double perfectionism
- γγ Having financial anxiety
- γγ Having a fear of talking in front of a camera
- γγ Being made to believe I was ugly which gave me a very low self-esteem and low self-love
- γγ Being lost in a country, city or town that is unfamiliar to me
- γγ Being made to feel bad because I am single and not one of the societal norms (married and with children)
- γγ Breaking out of being a people pleaser
- γγ Having social anxiety
- γγ Dating a narcissist
- γγ Facing a fear of job interviews
- γγ Being manipulate by someone I looked up to like a parent
- γγ Told at a very young age that I had a heart of stone and that I would never become much and that I was aiming too with what I wanted to be in life as I was not confident enough, pretty enough, smart enough
- γγ Never really belonging anywhere
- γγ Constantly being compared to others by others
- γγ Being alienated by the other for not being the same age as them at church
- γγ Not living up to my true potential in life due to limiting beliefs and fears from childhood experience
If any of this resonates with you, please comment below
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