Navigating the rocky terrains of life

Do you often feel:

Let down by those you love
Misunderstood by others
Caught in a vicious circle where you trust the wrong people
Taken advantage of by those around you
Used by those you think are your friends
Confused when people say one thing and do another thing instead
As though what you think doesn’t matter to other
Unlistened to and unimportant
As though you are constantly telling people things, but it’s not getting through to them
As though your feelings don’t matter to others
As though it is sometimes pointless saying anything at all
As though you are just someone else’s play toy
As though you are not valued or respected

If this is the case, then you can truly do with someone who can listen to you and validate you and acknowledge you and your emotions. Someone none judgemental who will give you the space to say what is on your mind and help you unjumble the thoughts in your head and help you make sense of what direction to take with particular situation.

Someone who has been there before and who understands what you are going through and guide you on how to move forward in a non-confusing way. In a way, that is right for you. Someone who can help you see that it is normal to feel this way because life and people are complex and layered and there are many twists, turns, layers and facets to them. Things are not always happy families and black and white all the time as:

People are selfish
People will let you down from time to time
Life gets in the way from time to time
People and their many layers are rather confusing at times
We are not always going to get what we want if we stay on the same path
We misunderstand others and they miss understand up
We aren’t living in the land of make believe anymore
We have to mature and grow up
People grow, change and evolve
People sometimes become more selfish
Without putting in the time, effort and action, we won’t get what we want
There is no book of life to tell you how to live, think and feel
There is no singular book with all the answers to life in it
There is no fairy godmother that can wave a magic wand and have things magically appear or disappear for us
Why do I say this?

Well, take a good hard look around at reality. The world we are living in is only our version or map of the world, and there are millions of other maps and versions of the world out there for each and every one of us. There are millions of options and possibilities out there waiting for us to be open-minded enough to uncover them and choose one to commit to.

All the versions and maps of the world out there have filters and blinders on them and they are formed by ours experiences, thoughts, feelings, actions, reactions, responses and the stories that we tell ourselves each and every day. These maps and versions of the world are comparable to dimensions of the world where there are several billions of possibilities, as our options and possibilities are endless.

The trick to life is finding the right dimension to exist in and that is where your personal and spiritual growth and evolution comes in. If we choose the wrong dimension to exist in we go straight back to square one which is the comfort zone of familiarity where we repeat the cycle we have been repeating for quite some time until we hit the jackpot with of dimensions that pot of gold at the end of the rainbow that challenges us to grow and change evolve some more.

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